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Explorations and Reflections

on awakening the true self 

  • Writer's pictureMick Scott

The Missing Ingredient in My Love

A month or so ago, we were having a typical Saturday afternoon at home. 

At some point, my wife and I were hanging in the kitchen and making some food together.

And I was a bit cranky.

Why was I cranky? I couldn’t actually put my finger on it. It was just my mood, I guess.

So I checked in with my commitments…

As part of my daily self-creation process, I create who I am as a husband and father: 

I am an extraordinary husband and father, and I love with patience, presence, appreciation, and generosity.

This statement is powerful to me for two reasons:

  1. It inspires me to move beyond my ordinary, default ways of being and acting (like reacting).

  2. It defines for me what it is to love. Remember, like courage, love is a verb, not a noun, and I find it extremely useful to define the ways that I can create love.

I asked myself on that cranky Saturday afternoon: was I being patient? Present? Appreciative? Generous? Yes, I think I was being all those things.

But something was still missing…

What else would be an authentic expression of love in action with my family? 

Enthusiasm! Excitement! Passion!

Enthuse: en-theos. God within. “To be inspired or possessed by a god.”

Enthusiasm for life. Enthusiasm for family. Enthusiasm to express and honor the spirit within me and within them - even when in a low mood.

Yes, that was missing. 

Since then, I daily create myself in this vibrant and life-giving way - some days it's 'enthusiasm,' other days it's 'passion.'

Always, it's vibrant and life-giving.

My Saturdays with the family haven’t been quite the same since.

Thank you for reading. ❤️

P.S. As a transformational coach - a life coach, a soul coach - I help teens, adults, and organizations move beyond their self-imposed limitations to be their best and feel their best. If you’re interested in finding out how I can support you or your organization, reach out and let’s talk. 💌

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